After a good phone conversation and reading a couple of comments – I am deleting this post from this site.  Since this is a RH webpage and I am a RH board member, a natural assumption is that RH asked me to do this.  They did not, these are just my thoughts on a growing FWB social media conversation.  However, my post being here on a RH sponsored site could create some potential problems for other board members or RH employees if people (naturally) assume that I am speaking in some authoritative way for RH on this site.  I’ll put up a link on here so people can find the discussion when it picks back up.  My apologies to anyone who assumed my view reflects the larger vision of RH.